30 Days to Emotional Awareness & Wellness Challenge
Day 9: Finding Balance
If you took time to complete the free strengths assessments, it’s likely you’ve gained a better understanding of where your talents are and how you can leverage them to facilitate your emotional awareness and wellness. The High 5 Test discloses five top abilities and the VIA Assessment compiles a customized profile of 24 character strengths. When combined, these profiles provide a comprehensive overview and a good starting place for understanding what makes each of us unique.
Our talents unveil our strengths, and our strengths help us maximize our performance, but relying too heavily on the information our strengths provide could be harmful and lead to additional blind spots. Forbes Coaches Council (2017) warned that being dependent on any particular strength or set of strengths potentially leads to unconscious bias and the dismissal of alternative solutions that are viable. They also suggested hyperfocusing on strengths prevents us from seeking others’ perspectives and using higher order thinking, creativity, and savvy, which ultimately undermines our intentions and reduces outcome quality.
Therefore, staying aware and striking a balance are key to avoid these potential obstacles. If you have not already done so, take the VIA Assessment. Using the results provided, make note of the last five strengths presented and compare them with the top five. Identify techniques you can use to leverage both.
My VIA Assessment results, for example, revealed that gratitude is one of my top strengths, but spirituality comes less naturally. While I initially found this result puzzling, to say the least, the dynamic between these two strengths was also intriguing. With a little research the relationship between them became more evident and strategies for development were easily identified.
Here’s what I learned: Gratitude, in and of itself, is a form of spirituality (Romero, 2017). In another article, Chopra (2015) discussed the spiritual experience we have when we feel and express gratitude as well as shared study findings that suggest gratitude has a direct and favorable influence on our spirituality and well-being. Some of the interventions used to enhance spirituality in the study included: inspirational journaling, mind-body exercises, relaxation techniques, and activities in natural settings.
Without going through the process of exposing our strengths and areas where we need further development, a renewed sense of awareness is intangible, and change is unattainable. Investing time for self-discovery in this area allows us to make the adjustments necessary for channeling our talents, appreciating our limitations, and more importantly, improving our emotional awareness and wellness.
References
Chopra, D. (2015, September 3). Sowing seeds of gratitude to cultivate wellbeing . Retrieved from https://www.huffingtonpost.com/deepak-chopra/sowing-seeds-of-gratitude_b_8078426.html
Forbes Coaches Council. (2017, October 19). Don’t let your strengths become a weakness. Retrieved from https://www.forbes.com/sites/forbescoachescouncil/2017/10/19/dont-let-your-strength-become-a-weakness/#7796d52013f1
Romero, L. E. (2017, November 22). Gratitude: The ultimate spiritual practice (A Thanksgiving special). Retrieved from https://www.forbes.com/sites/luisromero/2017/11/22/gratitude-the-ultimate-spiritual-practice-a-thanksgiving-special/#61d735c82706



